There’s so much about love that you don’t understand. And contrary to what the people say, love isn’t a game. It’s not about who’s the best and who isn’t. It’s not about losing or winning. Love is more complicated than that.
The moment you have learned about it, you started to get curious. You always wonder who would be that person who’ll give you the warm tingling sensation of flowing electricity, who’ll give butterflies in your stomach and especially make you feel wanted and loved.
You thought that the time would just come when you’ll meet that person eye to eye and everything would be a bliss. That is all you want. But the cosmos doesn’t work that way. It doesn’t come easy and that’s how it supposed to be.
Nothing is perfect. So understand that it won’t always play out in ways you want it to be. Love is not perfect and will never be. Because in love, there’ll be no easy way in or easy way out. It’s not just about who you fall in love with, when and why you fell in love, and how you fell out of it. It’s not just about the heartbreaks, the laughters, and the lessons. It’s not even about the relationships or the break ups, the loyalty or infidelity, the cause and the results.
Despite that, love is always going to be worth it. There’ll be regrets and tears. It’s not always going to be a clear sky every day. But there’s always going to be a rainbow after the heavy rain. You can’t control what happens to you, but you can always make the best of what you’re given.
No one said that love would be easy because it won’t. And though there’s so much about love that you don’t understand, it is always worth all the trouble.
- Posted by Hatsuharu